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Meet Nicola Spencer

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Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)

GET TO KNOW NICOLA

Who She Supports

  • Individuals

  • LGBTQ+

  • Couples

  • Families

  • Youth

  • New Parents

  • Single Parents

Additional Trainings

  • Divorce Ambivalence Training- Ginny Wright- 2026

  • Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy Certification - 2025

    Relational Couples Therapy Certification with Dr. Alexandra Solomon - January 2026

Appointment Types

  • In Person in Nanaimo

  • Online across British Columbia

Biography

Hi, I’m Nicola – a couples and relationship-focused counsellor who’s passionate about helping partners reconnect, communicate better, and navigate life’s messy, beautiful moments together. My therapy space is grounded in collaboration, curiosity, and compassion. Whether you’re dating, married, navigating non-monogamy, long-distance, or intentionally child-free – I’m here to support you as a team. Relationships are deeply personal, but they don’t have to be figured out alone. Let’s roll up our sleeves and explore what’s working, what’s not, and what kind of connection you want to build moving forward. In my work with couples, I aim to help you:

● Talk so your partner actually hears [aka – understands] you

● Feel like a real team instead of two opposing forces

● Make the hard conversations a bit easier & more productive

● Imagine new ways to improve your sex life

● Create closeness, even in long-distance relationships

● Explore the complexities of being intentionally child-free

I think of therapy as “work hard, play hard” – with a generous side of empathy, honesty, and a bit of humour. Together, we’ll look at the dynamics that keep you stuck, the strengths that hold you together, and the possibilities waiting to unfold. My goal isn’t to “fix” you or your relationship – it’s to help you co-create a space where both of you can feel seen, supported, and more connected than ever.

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